A sermon for the thirteenth Sunday after Pentecost, September 4, 2022
Trinity Episcopal Church of Morrisania, Bronx, New York
For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether he has enough to complete it?
Today is the only day in our lectionary that we read an entire book of the Bible—Paul’s letter to Philemon. Unlike most of Paul’s letters, this one is addressed to an individual. Philemon was a leader of a church that met in his home, probably in Colossae, in what’s now western Turkey. The main issue addressed in the letter is the status of a slave named Onesimus.
No one who has considered this letter deeply is satisfied with what Paul says here. Slavery in the Roman Empire was every bit as brutal and exploitative as American slavery was. It was pervasive and the Roman economy relied on it. In the Roman Empire, slaves were not slaves based on race; people usually became slaves by being captured in war, or sold because they owed debts. Indeed, one of the main factors driving military conquest in that era was the desire to get more slaves to work in fields and mines and to be sold as personal servants. Those who were prosperous and had a fine standard of living were a tiny minority. Some people lived comfortably but humbly as craftsmen or the like, but most people lived in poverty. Or they were slaves.
It’s not really possible to make a case to justify this system. Oppression was the norm, except for a very small percentage of people. Slaves were regularly humiliated and beaten. At that time, slavery was pervasive and integral to society—people at that time were no more likely to think of society without slaves, than we would think about a society without banks today.
Jesus and Paul both knew and taught that all people were fundamentally equal before God. Paul said it in Galatians: “There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.” But Paul doesn’t say that slavery should be abolished, here or elsewhere. That allowed some Christians to rationalize slavery and other unequal treatment of people for the next 2,000 years. There’s no escaping that this is bad, but it’s something we are forced to grapple with in this reading today.
When Paul wrote this letter, he was in prison. What he had already said about God raising an executed criminal from the dead, of God’s love for even the lowest and most humble of people, and about human freedom from tyranny, were enough to get him thrown in jail. From jail, Paul wrote to Philemon.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus talks about being ready: ready for the Kingdom of God, ready to be Jesus’ disciples. There is no room for distraction—you have to pay attention, just like the person planning to build a tower—you have to be ready for what it costs to be Jesus’ disciple.
That’s what Paul is doing here: he is both doing what is most likely to help his friend and protégé, Onesimus, and he is teaching his friend Philemon what it takes to be Jesus’ disciple.
There’s another thing to understand here. Letters in the ancient world, even letters between individuals, weren’t private in the way we think of private correspondence. Paper was expensive and delivery was costly. When a letter was received it was normal for it to be read aloud and passed around—shared with relatives or members of the community down the road, or, if it was important enough, recopied and circulated among people who would be interested. You can tell from the structure and mentions of people in Paul’s letters that he expected this to happen. And so did Philemon.
Paul first thanks Philemon for his love and faithfulness and thanks God for those traits. This isn’t just flattery, and it is not simply to impress the others who would be expected read or hear this letter. What is going on is that Paul is building discipleship by reminding his audience that God’s love is manifested in others, and that, as Jesus’s disciples, we need to remember this, remembering how God’s love is manifested in one another, and through that manifestation, more love is generated, and more possibilities for hope are born.
Then Paul confronts Philemon with the next step in actually being Christ’s disciple: “Though I am bold enough in Christ to command you to do your duty, yet I would rather appeal to you on the basis of love.” It is Philemon’s responsibility, not just to accept Onesimus back because Paul says so, but as an integral part of being a disciple of Jesus and living his love. You might call this the “business end” of Paul’s request and Paul doesn’t just rely on how Philemon might feel about it. He writes a promissory note in the original: his own signature, promising to pay. All the arguments that Philemon and the rest of us might make up to justify excluding or punishing this Onesimus. or somebody who makes us uncomfortable don’t cut it with Paul. He puts his own self on the line for the sake of Onesimus and for helping Philemon become the disciple Christ wants him to be: “Receive him as your beloved brother! Not as a slave!”
Paul says to Philemon, “I will repay it. I say nothing about your owing me even your own self. Yes, brother, let me have this benefit from you…Refresh my heart in Christ.” Refresh my heart—live that life of love that Christ has brought us into.
Being Jesus’ disciple is not always easy. The main way that it’s not easy is remembering what we owe to God—our whole lives, the grace of being accepted by God means that being Jesus’ disciple means extending ourselves. Philemon had lived his life regarding Onesimus and other slaves as inferiors and believing their shortcomings or disobedience made them worthless—but being Jesus’ disciple turned that upside down. In what ways has being Jesus disciples turned our views upside down? How might we be called to change? There will be change. We give thanks for that—that Christ’s love extends beyond ourselves and refreshes the heart of all of God’s people.
As it says in our psalm:
Their delight is in the law of the Lord,
and they meditate on his law day and night.
They are like trees planted by streams of water,
bearing fruit in due season, with leaves that do not wither;
everything they do shall prosper.
Psalm 1:2-3